Finley Woodmansee
Specialties: LGBTQ+ Issues, Neurodivergence (Autism + ADHD), Complex Trauma, Dissociation, and Ethical Nonmonogamy
Finley is a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (#145577) practicing in Los Angeles, CA under the supervision of Kate Behzadi, LMFT (#97100). Finley holds a Master’s degree in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University and a Bachelor’s of Science in Aerospace Engineering from Georgia Tech. They have extensive experience working with survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and adult children of narcissistic abuse, as well as supporting others in the LGBTQ+ community with their growth and self-discovery journeys at any stage. Finley approaches therapy from a non-pathologizing perspective, believing that everything we do is inherently protective in nature and there are no bad parts of ourselves, only parts that need a new way to accomplish the same goal. Finley enjoys helping others reconnect with their sense of self and find ways to feel safe that match their most authentic life.
About Me
I am someone who became a therapist because I was the client. I believe that the most important part of therapy is human connection and understanding, and I know firsthand how relieving it can be to connect with someone who understands your experience. As a therapist, I see you as the expert and take a supporting role in your journey, here to share resources and help you connect with the strengths and experiences within that will guide you toward the path that best honors your authentic self. No matter where you are in your journey, I am here for you with judgement-free, shame-free support. Whether you are looking for specific support or just feel lost and don’t know what you need yet, we can start wherever you are. I am comfortable sitting with you in your darkest spaces, celebrating your victories, sifting through overwhelm when everything feels like chaos, laughing about how ridiculous life can be sometimes, and everything in-between. Together, we can find what works best for you, no matter what that looks like.
As a transmasculine and autistic person, I deeply understand the importance of creating a safe and affirming space for neurodivergent people and members of the LGBTQ+ community to explore their identities and navigate the complexities of their lived experiences. My specialization in trauma therapy, coupled with my personal understanding of gender and sexuality diversity, allows me to offer uniquely empathetic and effective support to people seeking gender-affirming care, navigating burnout, and grappling with issues related to sexual and identity trauma. I am especially passionate about working with clients experiencing dissociation and intimacy issues, and have experience using Internal Family Systems and somatic techniques to help clients (especially trans and nonbinary adults) navigate fragmentation and heavily parts-driven behavior. I practice through a depth psychology lens informed by IFS, EMDR, and neural integration, and feel confident creating collaborative treatment frameworks that align with each client’s lived reality and perspective.
I believe that human connection is an important part of feeling safe, especially when sharing your most vulnerable feelings. It can be hard to open up to someone you don’t know, so here are a few things about me on a human level to break the ice: I am transmasculine, high-masking auDHD, love puzzles, am a huge video games and anime fan, grew up in The Netherlands, and my best friend is my big, lazy sheepadoodle named Bernoulli. I love exploring the best hidden gem restaurants in Los Angeles and have a passion for art history and speculative fiction. From one human on a lifelong healing journey to another, I would love to support you!